Sunday, 25 November 2012

Bullying


What is bullying?
Have you ever been affected by bullying?
Why do people bully?
Why do people get bullied?
What is the purpose of bullying?
Are you a bully?

Bullying is something simple , Bullying is when you hurt somebody , mentally , physically or emotionally , you might not even know you are bullying somebody.


People normally bully people because they feel down or they are jealous or it is natural for them to be mean. It is a way for that person to relieve some of their stress and to make other people know how they feel and for people to understand there vicious ways. This does NOT mean it is ok to bully people.

People get bullied because they seem as an easy target or there is an emotional conflict there or there is some tension flowing between people and it is released through any type of bullying.

The purpose of bullying is for a contained person to let their anger out in vicious ways.

, yes it makes you feel good for about an hour but then after when you reflect on what you have done you feel worse , feel happier when I make people smile.

Key tips:

- Release your energy into helping people
- Instead of hurting people try making them smile
- Find something else to release you anger into
- Don’t get angry 
- Keep out an angry person’s way
- Don’t let there be tension

Friday, 16 November 2012

Mum x

Mum x


Mom
Mums are the best thing that we have on this planet!
Mums they make you smile when you’re low,
Mums they pick you up from the floor,   
Mums they’ll never shut the door ,
Mums they give you all they’re love because that’s what they’re for ,
Mums are always there, you know,
Mums love you , when you feel like they don’t  ,
Mums are there for you and only you  <3
Mums are the best thing we have gotten; yes we take advantage and don’t show them what they deserve. That is insanely wrong, when you think you have the world on your shoulders, look at your mum because she has your troubles and if you have siblings theirs to. :I
Your mum is like a superhero she takes care of things like no one else could, she backs your case when no one should , and she tries harder than anyone could .
When you smiles she smiles bigger , when you hurt she hurts more , when you’re in pain she’s dying , when your crying , she makes a river of tears , when you pray she blesses you , when your sad her heart feels bad , when your good she feels like every mother should , when you feel proud  her heart bursts , when you laugh her stomach rips and she snorts with laughter and when you need her she is always there !  They also cook the best – lol x
The worst feeling in life is when you do look behind and your mother is not here and it hurts , if it’s for a day or a lifetime because all the security and the love has gone and you lose control and you don’t know how to cope with the next day because you dying the first day without her .
When you see sadness in her eyes it hurts you more , when she smiles your heart feels full , when she says “ I LOVE YOU” your heart melts in two , why ? Because she is your MOM !!!
You can only make your mom be happy , in one way and that is too listen to her !
If you listen to mum , the best things in life come to you.
My mum is my best friend , me and my mum talk, she knows who I like , why I like them , who asked me out and what is going on in life , I can ask her the most inappropriate things and we can laugh at the most stupid thing and our arguments lol our arguments , we shout we scream,  were telling each other , I LOVE YOU .
My mum is BEAUTIFUL , AMAZING , FUNNY , COOL , INTRESTING , AWESOME and everything you want a mom to be , my mum is special to me , just as your mum is to you ! :D  
I LOVE YOU MOM XX <3
Key tips to looking after your mum:
Key tips:
-          Don’t break her heart
-          Know that whatever she says is right
-          Never say hurtful things to her
-          Always say I LOVE YOU to her
-          Make her feel special
-          Know and again ask her for tea or coffee
-          Be Happy :D xx

Friendship

Friendship!
What are friends?
How many friends do you need?
Do you have to be with your friends 24 / 7?
Are you allowed to fight with your friends?
Do they have to be nice to you?
Do they always be there?

REAL, BEST FRIENDS ARE THE PEOPLE THAT DON’T LET YOU DO STUPID THINGS..... ALONE!!!

Friendship is a beautiful relationship between people; you don’t need to have lots of friends or only one friend to have a good friendship.

Friends all make you smile and always laugh at your jokes and even when you know that your joke aren’t funny they still support laugh, your friends always notice the stupid things you do or say even if the things you do are so minor, your friends tell you nasty things to your face to let you know what’s wrong and they tell you the things that not one else would, just for your own benefit. You can always be yourself with them and they’ll love you.

Friends they come and go but if the friends that leave you and come back , they were your friends from the start but the friends that leave and don’t look back they’re snakes and your real friends would always say sorry even if they weren’t in the wrong just to make things ok.

I have a good relationship with my two best friends and when we have arguments, our arguments things kick off big but when I look behind me they are ALWAYS there for me , my friends have to keep up with me , why ? because they love me , or they might only love one thing about me  and have to carry the whole package – lol x I love my two friends they won’t fight my battles because I can’t they fight my battles because they know how I am. They make me want to learn, they make me feel special and they point out the most important things in me and they tell me that I AM going to become someone and that I WILL become anything I want to be. I love my two mist friends x <3

I am not saying friendships are easy and they last ,they don't, you do stupid things that put your friends off, you might not like it when they tell you off, people can get in the way but if you matter to your friends, you’ll try to make it work.

All friendships are different, some are wild, some are calm, some are bad, some or good and some are just funny.

I would like to thank all the friends that I have, who looked after me and told me what they have to, to make me a better person and I LOVE YOU ALL x

Key tips to look after your friends:

Key tips:
-          Fewer friends, less problems.
-          Look after them like your own siblings.
-          Don’t put them down unless it’s for their own benefit.
-          Just make them smile; it’ll make your day.
-          Help them and they’ll help you.
-          Be happy x

Boys are mean

why are boys mean ?
who are boys ?
Are all the boys the same ?
Why is it in boys blood to hurt us ?
Why are boys bullies ?
Are there nice boys ?

Boys are mean , if its now or when ever , they will  be mean and us girls have to realise that they are a waste of time.Boys are a painfull distraction , they hurt your heart and they confuse your mind and they feel powerfull seeing sadness in your eyes.

When you are with a boy , you want to leave them or you dont want them and when you dont have a boy all you think about is them.

To MOST girls nowadays think boys are everything , a FEW girls think boys are nothing and some girls are stuck in the middle .Boys play a big part it girls lives and because they know that , they take it too their adavantage and use you.

Boys are all the same but EVERYGIRL has their special someone that they'll never think is bad.

Boys make everything look so easy , when its a girl everything is harder and it looks bad.

Boys be bullies / mean because it makes them feel more manlier and they want to show you they are the stronger sex and they want to let you know that they will hurt you anyway they can.

 

Sunday, 4 November 2012

Boys ? :P

Boys , Boys and Boys.

Why are girls so obsessed with them?
Why do they like hurting girls?
How can they be so mean and still get us to love them ?
Why are they so rebelious ?
Why do they love so much?
Why do they hurt so much?

These questions are still unknown to girls and it is a real mystery , to know these awnsers you have to be one of the guys and all my life i have been that !

Boys are like a shopkeeper , they do look after there goods but when they find something (in this case someone) cheaper and has more to offer they'll drop there favroite product (their best girlfriend) for something new.

I am not saying boys dont hurt , they do and GUESS what , They proberbly hurt more than girls do. That is why they like hurting girls so they do not let anyone have an oppurtunity to hurt them.

Boys , they are rebelious , even the geeky guys have their moments , its when the lights on them and they want to look good , it is mainly to get people to look at them and laugh at their jokes and they want to be accepted even from the lowest people. The boys show their stregnth through all the phyical side of rebelion and they will never show there emotional side.

Everyguy has a girl best freind , they love and adore her like she was a prized possesion and it doesnt have to be a girllfriend it can be anyone.

This is a " Saltley school fact " , it is better to be friends with the oppisite sex because they do not judge you because they know the diffrences and they love you because you are diffrent, you can express your views about the other sex and they would give advise , so yeah , girls , to avoid bitchiness become friends with the guys and guys vise a versa.

It is better to have a sister and brother bond than a girlfriend and boyfriend bond because the brother and sister love can NEVER go away "popular girl should listen to this lol :P" but when the girlfriend and boyfriend thing starts its all good but when it ends all there is , is awkwardness and weirdness there isnt even a friendship flowing.

If a boy hears his girlfriend is going to end the relationship :( , he will do anything to stop it because he loves too much , but if things still go wrong he will end it first , so he can stop the hurt.

The boys that bully girls is the guy who is scared of girls hurting him in return :L

 Girls are obesessed with guys because they want someone stronger than them to look after them and if that girl has not got a proper father figure she would look for a boyfriend that would give her love and affection like her dad was supposed to and there is also that chemistry between people , like girls always remember their first kiss and compared to boys their emotions are heightened.
 

Boys , Boys and Boys <3 or </3 or :D or :(



Key tips :

- Just be friends and treat them like brothers.
- Keep your limits.
- Dont hurt yourself or him.
- Dont ever get suicidal ( boys and girls) , they're not worth it.
- Dont fall in love too young
- Be happy xx